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Pelvic floor therapy works to improve overall sexual health and satisfaction by strengthening key muscles.


Those born with penises have specific needs, desires, and expectations when it comes to the function, personal goals, health, and overall well-being of their pelvis. Unfortunately, these are not easily understood and treated properly by many practitioners outside the LGBTQ+ community. We believe it’s crucial to be able to freely and honestly discuss sexual concerns and goals, as well ask the right questions and receive the appropriate answers. Having a better understanding of your body empowers us all. At Bespoke Surgical, this is exactly what we aim to do. 

Pelvic floor therapy is a specialty area of treatment focused on the pelvis. As we age, our pelvic muscles become weaker. Anal sex can cause premature muscle weakness, which leads to a host of problems. Proper assessment and management can maintain the correct functioning of the lower part of the bowel. It can also prevent weakness from occurring or restore muscle weakness associated with anal sex. We can even help you achieve intimate physical goals to get you living a fulfilling authentic sex life.

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From our clients

“Dr. Goldstein is an excellent surgeon. He really does care, completely understands and respects that my butt has more than one function. I won’t let anyone other than him resolve issues that may arise.”

– S. W.

“Dr. Goldstein has been treating me for several years now. He has performed two surgeries on me as well as more minor procedures and he has really improved my quality of life! His office is beautiful and easy to get to and I’ve rarely had to wait in his waiting area for very long. He and his staff have always been friendly and respectful and I always look forward to seeing them. You can’t go wrong when you have the best!”

– M. S.

“As a gay male, I know all to well the pains of dealing with a non-LGBTQ practitioner who thinks that as long as you’re tested for HIV, they’ve done their job. Dr. Goldstein is a completely different experience. He and his team are extremely personable, welcoming, and knowledgeable. Pretty much always on time, always available for questions over email, and always takes time to talk to you before getting right into business.”

– S. K.

“10/10 RECOMMEND!!! I have been going to Bespoke Surgical for over a year now and have nothing but amazing things to say. The staff is super friendly!”

– K. H.

Pelvic Floor Therapist


Steven Lavender is an Australian trained physiotherapist and has extensive post-graduate education and advanced training and worked in all levels of hospital and private healthcare. He is passionate about all aspects of men’s health, especially concerns affecting those within the gay male community, and is one of a very few men who specializes in Men’s Pelvic Health. Pelvic floor dysfunction includes many symptoms that can be embarrassing and stressful. Steven will take the stress and embarrassment out of your experience and help you achieve the best possible outcomes.

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