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Click to read The Best U.S. Cities to Get Lucky

The Best U.S. Cities to Get Lucky

Which cities have the sauciest hookup scene or the most opportunities to score? We’ve scoured locations across the country to find which ones have the most singles, minimal sexual frustration, the highest number of bars, adult entertainment clubs, and other indicators of a thriving hookup culture – all to help you find the perfect place

March 02, 2023 by bespoke

Click to read The Best U.S. Cities to Get Lucky

The Best U.S. Cities to Get Lucky

March 02, 2023 by bespoke

Click to read PSA: Bleeding After Anal Sex Is Not Normal

PSA: Bleeding After Anal Sex Is Not Normal

There is nothing normal about bleeding with anal intercourse. While it may be common, it is not normal. Last night, I stopped by the podcast GayTalk 2.0 for my regular appearance, during which we spoke of last week’s double penetration blog post and the repercussions to boot.

February 15, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Average Penis Size By State (Length at Full Erection)

Average Penis Size By State (Length at Full Erection)

Let’s take a minute to talk about the penis. Here at Bespoke Surgical, we often talk about assholes, anal, and all things bottom (especially bottoming), but right now, we are going to focus on the other delightful part that’s just a few inches away. To us, there’s no such thing as a bad penis.

January 10, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read What to Do if You Have a Burst Hemorrhoid

What to Do if You Have a Burst Hemorrhoid

A burst hemorrhoid is exactly what it sounds like. When you have a hemorrhoid that fills up with too much blood, it bursts. Before we dive deeper into burst hemorrhoids, let’s do a quick refresher on hemorrhoids themselves. Hemorrhoids result from increased pressure in the veins of the anus, which causes them to bulge and

December 16, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read How to Tighten a Loose Anus & Gain Sphincter Strength

How to Tighten a Loose Anus & Gain Sphincter Strength

I spend a lot of time educating my clients on the right way to begin engaging as a bottom, but after years of anal play, something else many bottoms are concerned with is the possibility of loosening up their sphincters too much.

December 12, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The U.S. Sex Toy Map & Other Sex Toy Statistics

The U.S. Sex Toy Map & Other Sex Toy Statistics

Gone are the days of hushed tones and awkward confessions when it comes to talking about our sex toy usage. At Bespoke, sex toys are synonymous with self-care, which goes further than a good face mask and a meditation session. Sex toys can be a valuable part of a person’s self-love journey or a couple’s

August 29, 2022 by bespoke

Click to read How to Bottom: 8 Steps For Being a Great Bottom Partner

How to Bottom: 8 Steps For Being a Great Bottom Partner

The experts at Bespoke Surgical have compiled eight essential steps for being a good bottom partner. From diet to positioning to toys, we’ve covered it all to ensure you’re both prepared and able to have the best experience possible.

June 10, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Do You Need An Anal Pap Smear?

Do You Need An Anal Pap Smear?

Believe it or not, anal pap smears are not as common as they should be. At Bespoke Surgical, Dr. Goldstein has been at the forefront of educating people about what they are, who should get them, why you should get them, and how often you should get them. Everyone, especially those who engage in anal

May 18, 2022 by bespoke

Click to read What’s Turning Americans On in 2022?

What’s Turning Americans On in 2022?

What’s getting people in the mood in 2022? Maybe it’s a nibble of the lower lip. Perhaps it’s a level of confidence that’s indisputably sexy. Hell, maybe it’s a nude photo. We’re honestly not sure, but we felt a pressing need to find out. We asked a diverse set of Americans about which gestures, personality

March 24, 2022 by bespoke

Click to read Swollen Anus: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment

Swollen Anus: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment

The anus is not only our most valuable asset, but it’s also one of our most delicate. It’s quite a vulnerable part of the body with very tender, thin skin. When it’s even the slightest bit irritated or inflamed, you’re bound to notice. You may be wondering – ‘Why is my anus swollen?’ – and

March 17, 2022 by bespoke

Click to read Bring Home the Benefits of Data-Driven Care

Bring Home the Benefits of Data-Driven Care

mCompass Enables Anorectal Manometry Testing in Any Care Setting For an experienced clinician, fingertips can speak volumes during a rectal exam. But for the highest quality-of-care, data—along with digits—is crucial. After all, physicians are scientists and know that hard data is invaluable, leading to the better practice of medicine and better treatment results. However, for

March 10, 2022 by bespoke

Click to read The Science of Anal Sex

The Science of Anal Sex

Get to Know Your Inner A**hole For many, sharing sexual pleasure may be a form of art, but there’s also plenty of science behind it—particularly when it involves, well, the behind. Yes, we’re talking about anal sex—and by the way, these days, anal sex is not primarily the territory of gay men. Recent surveys suggest

February 21, 2022 by bespoke