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The Ultimate Guide to Rim Jobs
What Is a Rim Job? A rim job — also known as rimming or analingus — is the act of using one’s mouth and tongue to pleasure your partner’s anus. Rim jobs can involve licking, sucking and kissing, and any other oral-to-anal contact. Anal rimming can involve inserting the tongue into the anus, circling around
October 15, 2021 by bespoke
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Porn Usage in America & Changing Attitudes Toward Porn
The ongoing taboo associated with watching porn has lifted in recent years, as Americans continue to be more sexually adventurous. Gone are the days of hushed tones and shameful confessions that have (historically) been synonymous with porn viewership. People––across genders, generations, and sexual orientations––are more open and honest about their porn-viewing habits than ever before.
October 13, 2021 by bespoke
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The Average Number of Sexual Partners Across America
We’ve all gotten the question. You know, the one that makes you panic, squirm, and run quick mental calculations, hoping your answer is acceptable. What’s your number? And, no, we don’t mean your credit score. We’re talking about your number of sexual partners.
June 24, 2021 by bespoke
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America’s Favorite Sex Positions
As humans, we’re creatures of habit. Once we find a few go-to sex positions that tickle our fancy, we soon find ourselves cycling through the same ones over and over. For many, a healthy rotation of tried-and-true sex positions is preferred because these are the positions that we genuinely enjoy most with our partners or where climaxing is guaranteed.
March 23, 2021 by bespoke
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Why Americans Don’t Use Bidets (And Why We Should)
If you’ve ever taken a trip overseas, you know that culture shock can be very real. Different etiquette around tipping and different local cuisines are waiting to surprise Americans wherever they go. One less-talked-about culture shock faced by many Americans is their discovery of a bidet in their hotel bathroom overseas.
January 08, 2021 by bespoke
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Sex Product Spending Across The U.S.
Advertisers will tell you that “sex sells” just about any product on the market, but when it comes to the sex product industry, what’s really making a splash in our shifting culture around sex. In recent years, mainstream pop culture has started to move toward a more “sex-positive” outlook, bringing various issues out of the shadows and getting people talking about what they really need in the bedroom.
October 27, 2020 by bespoke
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How Often Should You Use an Enema?
Regardless of the subject, it never hurts to circle back to the basics periodically, and we’d like to revisit a topic we’ve touched on in other places at various points: enemas.
October 05, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Education, Health
STD Rates, Awareness, & Education in Each State
At Bespoke Surgical, we are committed to educating our patients and community about the healthiest sexual practices for themselves and for their partners – whether that be through providing proper education around anal play in our Tales from the Tail series, Dr. Evan Goldstein’s advocacy work, or any other initiative we take on.
July 29, 2020 by bespoke
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The Most Popular Sex Toys by State: The 2020 Update
The sex toy industry has taken off in recent years, thanks in part to the rapid growth of e-commerce platforms and changing social perception among users. In 2016, the sex toy industry was valued at $15 billion, and by 2019, it had increased to a whopping $26.5 billion. And from what we can tell, this is not expected to stop anytime soon.
March 23, 2020 by bespoke
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Tales from the Tail — Is Monogamy During Post-Surgery Recovery Realistic?
Partners in crime. Or so they say… Here’s some background on me: I am 27, in a two year monogamous relationship, and have always been self-conscious of the aesthetics of my asshole. As a kid, I suffered from bouts of constipation, which subsequently lead to the formation of hemorrhoids and skin tags.
November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Tales from the Tail — SEX with CBD
Short and sweet. No, I’m not referring to my anal play, but rather my tale. I am 35 and have the most ridiculous irritable bowel disease (IBS). You can imagine being born a bottom and how this could impact my life negatively. I’ve tried everything.
November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
