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What Are Americans Googling About Their Butts?
From health trends to cosmetic procedures, few body parts have captured the cultural spotlight quite like the butt. It’s been praised, debated, sculpted, and hashtagged into mainstream conversation — yet for all the attention, Americans still have plenty of questions about what’s going on back there. Whether it’s curiosity about health, appearance, or sex, our
December 08, 2025 by bespoke
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Average Penis Size By State (Length at Full Erection)
Let’s take a minute to talk about the penis. Here at Bespoke Surgical, we often talk about assholes, anal, and all things bottom (especially bottoming), but right now, we are going to focus on the other delightful part that’s just a few inches away. To us, there’s no such thing as a bad penis.
January 10, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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How to Tighten a Loose Anus & Gain Sphincter Strength
I spend a lot of time educating my clients on the right way to begin engaging as a bottom, but after years of anal play, something else many bottoms are concerned with is the possibility of loosening up their sphincters too much.
December 12, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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The U.S. Sex Toy Map & Other Sex Toy Statistics
Gone are the days of hushed tones and awkward confessions when it comes to talking about our sex toy usage. At Bespoke, sex toys are synonymous with self-care, which goes further than a good face mask and a meditation session. Sex toys can be a valuable part of a person’s self-love journey or a couple’s
August 29, 2022 by bespoke
Education, Health
Do You Need An Anal Pap Smear?
Believe it or not, anal pap smears are not as common as they should be. At Bespoke Surgical, Dr. Goldstein has been at the forefront of educating people about what they are, who should get them, why you should get them, and how often you should get them. Everyone, especially those who engage in anal
May 18, 2022 by bespoke
General, Health
What’s Turning Americans On in 2022?
What’s getting people in the mood in 2022? Maybe it’s a nibble of the lower lip. Perhaps it’s a level of confidence that’s indisputably sexy. Hell, maybe it’s a nude photo. We’re honestly not sure, but we felt a pressing need to find out. We asked a diverse set of Americans about which gestures, personality
March 24, 2022 by bespoke
Education, Health
Swollen Anus: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment
The anus is not only our most valuable asset, but it‘s also one of our most delicate. It‘s quite a vulnerable part of the body with very tender, thin skin. When it‘s even the slightest bit irritated or inflamed, you‘re bound to notice. You may be wondering – “Why is my anus swollen?” – and
March 17, 2022 by bespoke
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Bring Home the Benefits of Data-Driven Care
mCompass Enables Anorectal Manometry Testing in Any Care Setting For an experienced clinician, fingertips can speak volumes during a rectal exam. But for the highest quality-of-care, data, along with digits is crucial. After all, physicians are scientists and know that hard data is invaluable, leading to the better practice of medicine and better treatment results.
March 10, 2022 by bespoke
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What Is Rectal Prolapse? Discover Symptoms, Causes & Surgery
What is Rectal Prolapse? Rectal prolapse is when your rectum the last section of your large intestine drops and pushes through your anus. In the anal sex community, especially those who identify as gay, this is commonly referred to as a “rosebud,” and the act of pushing it out is known as “blooming.” While many
January 19, 2022 by bespoke
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The United States of Sexual Frustration
We’ve all been there, you hit up an old fling to end a dry spell the length of eternity. You can’t remember the last time you had an orgasm, or you and your partner’s sex life is starting to feel more stale than steamy. Sexual frustration is tough, full stop. It can occur with people
January 02, 2022 by bespoke
General, Education, Health
Porn Usage in America & Changing Attitudes Toward Porn
The ongoing taboo associated with watching porn has lifted in recent years, as Americans continue to be more sexually adventurous. Gone are the days of hushed tones and shameful confessions that have (historically) been synonymous with porn viewership. People across genders, generations, and sexual orientations are more open and honest about their porn-viewing habits than ever before.
October 13, 2021 by bespoke
