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Would You Let AI Replace Your Partner, Doctor, or Therapist? [A Survey]
Artificial intelligence has quickly become part of everyday life. Increasingly, it’s also becoming part of our personal lives. From asking embarrassing health questions to seeking dating advice, more Americans are turning to AI for conversations they may not feel comfortable having with anyone else. That shift isn’t happening in isolation. Four in 10 Americans (40%)
September 01, 2026 by Bespoke Surgical
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PSA: Bleeding After Anal Sex Is Not Normal
There is nothing normal about bleeding with anal intercourse. While it may be common, it is not normal. Last night, I stopped by the podcast GayTalk 2.0 for my regular appearance, during which we spoke of last week’s double penetration blog post and the repercussions to boot.
February 15, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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What to Do if You Have a Ruptured Hemorrhoid
A ruptured hemorrhoid is exactly what it sounds like. When you have a hemorrhoid that fills up with too much blood, it bursts. Before we dive deeper into ruptured hemorrhoids, let’s do a quick refresher on hemorrhoids themselves. Hemorrhoids result from increased pressure in the veins of the anus, which causes them to bulge and
December 16, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Loose Anal Muscles: How to Tighten Your Anus & Gain Sphincter Strength
I spend a lot of time educating my clients on the right way to begin engaging as a bottom, but after years of anal play, something else many bottoms are concerned with is the possibility of loosening up their sphincters too much.
December 12, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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The U.S. Sex Toy Map & Other Sex Toy Statistics
Gone are the days of hushed tones and awkward confessions when it comes to talking about our sex toy usage. At Bespoke, sex toys are synonymous with self-care, which goes further than a good face mask and a meditation session. Sex toys can be a valuable part of a person’s self-love journey or a couple’s
August 29, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical
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Bottoming 101: 8 Tips to be a Better Bottom
The experts at Bespoke Surgical have compiled eight essential steps for being a good bottom partner. From diet to positioning to toys, we’ve covered it all to ensure you’re both prepared and able to have the best experience possible.
June 10, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Do You Need An Anal Pap Smear?
Believe it or not, anal pap smears are not as common as they should be. At Bespoke Surgical, Dr. Goldstein has been at the forefront of educating people about what they are, who should get them, why you should get them, and how often you should get them. Everyone, especially those who engage in anal
May 18, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical
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What’s Turning Americans On in 2022?
What’s getting people in the mood in 2022? Maybe it’s a nibble of the lower lip. Perhaps it’s a level of confidence that’s indisputably sexy. Hell, maybe it’s a nude photo. We’re honestly not sure, but we felt a pressing need to find out. We asked a diverse set of Americans about which gestures, personality
March 24, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical
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Swollen Anus: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment
The anus is not only our most valuable asset, but it ‘ s also one of our most delicate. It ‘ s quite a vulnerable part of the body with very tender, thin skin. When it ‘ s even the slightest bit irritated or inflammation is present, you‘re bound to notice. You may be wondering
March 17, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical
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Bring Home the Benefits of Data-Driven Care
mCompass Enables Anorectal Manometry Testing in Any Care Setting For an experienced clinician, fingertips can speak volumes during a rectal exam. But for the highest quality-of-care, data, along with digits is crucial. After all, physicians are scientists and know that hard data is invaluable, leading to the better practice of medicine and better treatment results.
March 10, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical
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What Is Rectal Prolapse? Discover Symptoms, Causes & Surgery
What is Rectal Prolapse? Rectal prolapse is a medical condition in which the rectum, the final portion of the large intestine, slips out of its normal position and protrudes through the anus. It occurs when the muscles and connective tissues that support the rectum weaken or fail to hold it in place. While many consider
January 19, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical