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Click to read The Best U.S. Cities to Get Lucky

The Best U.S. Cities to Get Lucky

Which cities have the sauciest hookup scene or the most opportunities to score? We’ve scoured locations across the country to find which ones have the most singles, minimal sexual frustration, the highest number of bars, adult entertainment clubs, and other indicators of a thriving hookup culture – all to help you find the perfect place

March 02, 2023 by bespoke

Click to read The 10 Best Gay Sex Positions: A Guide

The 10 Best Gay Sex Positions: A Guide

The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering different positions not only heightens the experience, but also provides a deeper connection with your partner–both literally and figuratively. At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone.

January 13, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail: Is Monogamy During Post-Surgery Recovery Realistic?

Tales from the Tail: Is Monogamy During Post-Surgery Recovery Realistic?

Partners in crime. Or so they say… Here’s some background on me: I am 27, in a two year monogamous relationship, and have always been self-conscious of the aesthetics of my asshole. As a kid, I suffered from bouts of constipation, which subsequently lead to the formation of hemorrhoids and skin tags.

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read PSA: Bottoming for a Small Dick

PSA: Bottoming for a Small Dick

Seems like we have a small cock fetish at Bespoke Surgical. But I’d say it’s more like we’re obsessed with cock no matter what the size (and here you thought we only dealt with asses!). But both this week’s tale and last week’s tale are turning the attention to the “little guy”.

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read How Often Do Americans Masturbate?

How Often Do Americans Masturbate?

According to Thomas Lacquer’s 2003 book, Solitary Sex: A Cultural History of Masturbation, masturbation as we know it was invented in 1713. By that, he meant that while masturbation may have always existed, it was only in the early 18th century that the phenomenon was named a new “disease,” creating a “nearly universal engine for generating guilt, shame, and anxiety.”

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The Best Cities for Gay Dating

The Best Cities for Gay Dating

Living in a place with a vibrant dating scene is important for most single individuals, young and old. With such an environment, it can be easier to find a potential significant other, or simply explore the area with someone who doesn’t fall in the “friend” category. Romantic relationships aren’t everything — but they’re certainly an important part of life.

June 14, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail — Who Doesn’t Love to Get Their Ass Eaten?

Tales from the Tail — Who Doesn’t Love to Get Their Ass Eaten?

Who doesn’t love to get their ass eaten? I can surely say I do. I mean, I really do. It’s like a total fucking must for me. If you want to even think about sticking whatever dick into me, first things first.

May 07, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read ‘The Body Is The Instrument’ with The Tom of Finland Foundation

‘The Body Is The Instrument’ with The Tom of Finland Foundation

Dr. Evan Goldstein of Bespoke Surgical, in conjunction with Stuart Sandford, and Tom of Finland Foundation, is pleased to announce a benefit exhibition at TOM House in Los Angeles titled The Body Is The Instrument, from May 8th through May 31st 2019, and online via Paddle8.

April 23, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail : Not Seeing Hole to Hole

Tales from the Tail : Not Seeing Hole to Hole

I do not wanna talk bad about my ex, but (you knew there was a butt)… He had a small cock. Me (the bottom) plus his cock? It was more than manageable. Sometimes so accommodating that I didn’t feel a fucking thing. That wasn’t why we broke up, though. It’s just a matter of fact. We ended things because his job required him to relocate. And now, with me being back on the dating scene, I must say that there are some rather large penises out there.

March 19, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The Most Popular Queer Eye Member In Every State

The Most Popular Queer Eye Member In Every State

Queer Eye Season 3 is set to hit Netflix on March 15 and the announcement has fans of the Emmy-winning show excited about catching up on all the heartwarming stories and life-changing makeover goodness with the Fab Five. After all, who doesn’t enjoy a good binge-watching session? The show has propelled the members of the Fab Five to superstardom, making them icons in the industry.

March 03, 2019 by bespoke

Click to read Tales from the Tail —Get a Load of This (NSFW)

Tales from the Tail —Get a Load of This (NSFW)

There’s a secret underground fetish of size that lives in the shadows of the gay kink world. We hide due to fear of judgement, rejection, and outright ridicule from people who would otherwise make us feel like outcasts and freaks. Quite honestly, we are…

February 26, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail — IFB (Internal Fistulotomy for Bottoms)

Tales from the Tail — IFB (Internal Fistulotomy for Bottoms)

Every time I take a dick up my ass, I get this burning sensation. Small, big, wrist-thick—you fucking name it, it’s all irritating. I have done everything in an attempt to mitigate this sensation: constantly changing to different lubricants, trying different brands when using condoms, and also swapping out all of my toys to so-called “improved materials”.

January 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Bespoke Surgical: A Place for All Assholes

Bespoke Surgical: A Place for All Assholes

All day, I see assholes. I don’t discriminate — I treat all assholes, regardless of gender or sexuality. Luckily, the narrative of anal intercourse has become commonplace, thanks to coverage in the popular press these days, swaying way beyond just us homos.

December 12, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein