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Click to read How Many Dating App Matches Does It Take To Find A Hookup?

How Many Dating App Matches Does It Take To Find A Hookup?

When it comes to finding a hookup on dating apps, it’s truly a numbers game. But what does the lead time between a match and a sexy rendezvous look like for dating app users and what percentage of Americans’ matches are converting into a hookup (i.e., any activity beyond kissing or making out)? We went

March 03, 2024 by bespoke

Click to read Tales from the Tail: The New Approach to Anal Bleaching

Tales from the Tail: The New Approach to Anal Bleaching

I was always self-conscious about my butt, being a bottom and all. Was it cute? Was it tight enough? Was it too tight? There are so many things for us bottoms to worry about. And then something else came up that made me worry: color. You hear more and more people talking about wanting a nice, pink hole, especially within the gay community. Great. Let me add that to my list: Is my hole pink enough?

April 01, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tale: Just In the Nick of Time

Tales from the Tale: Just In the Nick of Time

Have you ever tried to shave your own ass? And no, not just your butt cheeks. I mean all the way to your hole. No matter what angle or how you attempt to view it (I know I’m not the only one who squats over my iPhone 11 Pro), it’s so damn hard to shave it perfectly, let alone without some element of injury.

April 01, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The Most Popular Sex Toys by State: The 2020 Update

The Most Popular Sex Toys by State: The 2020 Update

The sex toy industry has taken off in recent years, thanks in part to the rapid growth of e-commerce platforms and changing social perception among users. In 2016, the sex toy industry was valued at $15 billion, and by 2019, it had increased to a whopping $26.5 billion. And from what we can tell, this is not expected to stop anytime soon.

March 23, 2020 by bespoke

Click to read The State of Oral Sex in America

The State of Oral Sex in America

Oral sex is just one way to give or receive pleasure, so why are there so many opinions, feelings, and stereotypes surrounding the topic? Because weâ€™re human, of course. And humans and sex have a complex relationship, to say the least!

March 09, 2020 by bespoke

Click to read The 10 Best Gay Sex Positions: A Guide

The 10 Best Gay Sex Positions: A Guide

The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering different positions not only heightens the experience, but also provides a deeper connection with your partner–both literally and figuratively. At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone.

January 13, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read PSA: Bottoming for a Small Dick

PSA: Bottoming for a Small Dick

Seems like we have a small cock fetish at Bespoke Surgical. But I’d say it’s more like we’re obsessed with cock no matter what the size (and here you thought we only dealt with asses!). But both this week’s tale and last week’s tale are turning the attention to the “little guy”.

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail: Is Monogamy During Post-Surgery Recovery Realistic?

Tales from the Tail: Is Monogamy During Post-Surgery Recovery Realistic?

Partners in crime. Or so they say, here’s some background on me: I am 27, in a two year monogamous relationship, and have always been self-conscious of the aesthetics of my asshole. As a kid, I suffered from bouts of constipation, which subsequently lead to the formation of hemorrhoids and skin tags.

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read How Often Do Americans Masturbate?

How Often Do Americans Masturbate?

According to Thomas Lacquer’s 2003 book, Solitary Sex: A Cultural History of Masturbation, masturbation as we know it was invented in 1713. By that, he meant that while masturbation may have always existed, it was only in the early 18th century that the phenomenon was named a new disease, creating a “nearly universal engine for generating guilt, shame, and anxiety.”

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The Best Cities for Gay Dating

The Best Cities for Gay Dating

Living in a place with a vibrant dating scene is important for most single individuals, young and old. With such an environment, it can be easier to find a potential significant other, or simply explore the area with someone who doesn’t fall in the “friend” category. Romantic relationships aren’t everything — but they’re certainly an important part of life.

June 14, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail: Who Doesn’t Love to Get Their Ass Eaten?

Tales from the Tail: Who Doesn’t Love to Get Their Ass Eaten?

Who doesn’t love to get their ass eaten? I can surely say I do. I mean, I really do. It’s like a total fucking must for me. If you want to even think about sticking whatever dick into me, first things first.

May 07, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read “The Body Is The Instrument” with The Tom of Finland Foundation

“The Body Is The Instrument” with The Tom of Finland Foundation

Dr. Evan Goldstein of Bespoke Surgical, in conjunction with Stuart Sandford, and Tom of Finland Foundation, is pleased to announce a benefit exhibition at TOM House in Los Angeles titled The Body Is The Instrument, from May 8th through May 31st 2019, and online via Paddle8.

April 23, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail: Not Seeing Hole to Hole

Tales from the Tail: Not Seeing Hole to Hole

I do not wanna talk bad about my ex, but (you knew there was a but), he had a small cock. Me (the bottom) plus his cock? It was more than manageable. Sometimes so accommodating that I didn’t feel a fucking thing. That wasn’t why we broke up, though. It’s just a matter of fact. We ended things because his job required him to relocate. And now, with me being back on the dating scene, I must say that there are some rather large penises out there.

March 19, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein