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The Ultimate Guide to Rim Jobs

What Is a Rim Job? A rim job — also known as rimming or analingus — is the act of using one’s mouth and tongue to pleasure your partner’s anus. Rim jobs can involve licking, sucking and kissing, and any other oral-to-anal contact. Anal rimming can involve inserting the tongue into the anus, circling around

October 15, 2021 by bespoke

The Best Cities for Gay Dating

Living in a place with a vibrant dating scene is important for most single individuals, young and old. With such an environment, it can be easier to find a potential significant other, or simply explore the area with someone who doesn’t fall in the “friend” category. Romantic relationships aren’t everything — but they’re certainly an important part of life.

June 14, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tail — Who Doesn’t Love to Get Their Ass Eaten?

Who doesn’t love to get their ass eaten? I can surely say I do. I mean, I really do. It’s like a total fucking must for me. If you want to even think about sticking whatever dick into me, first things first.

May 07, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

‘The Body Is The Instrument’ Event in Partnership with The Tom of Finland Foundation

Dr. Evan Goldstein of Bespoke Surgical, in conjunction with Stuart Sandford, and Tom of Finland Foundation, is pleased to announce a benefit exhibition at TOM House in Los Angeles titled The Body Is The Instrument, from May 8th through May 31st 2019, and online via Paddle8.

April 23, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

How to Bottom: 8 Steps For Being a Great Bottom Partner

The experts at Bespoke Surgical have compiled eight essential steps for being a good bottom partner. From diet to positioning to toys, we’ve covered it all to ensure you’re both prepared and able to have the best experience possible.

April 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tail —We Ain’t Seeing Hole to Hole

I do not wanna talk bad about my ex, but (you knew there was a butt)… He had a small cock. Me (the bottom) plus his cock? It was more than manageable. Sometimes so accommodating that I didn’t feel a fucking thing. That wasn’t why we broke up, though. It’s just a matter of fact. We ended things because his job required him to relocate. And now, with me being back on the dating scene, I must say that there are some rather large penises out there.

March 19, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

The Most Popular Queer Eye Member In Every State

Queer Eye Season 3 is set to hit Netflix on March 15 and the announcement has fans of the Emmy-winning show excited about catching up on all the heartwarming stories and life-changing makeover goodness with the Fab Five. After all, who doesn’t enjoy a good binge-watching session? The show has propelled the members of the Fab Five to superstardom, making them icons in the industry.

March 03, 2019 by bespoke

Tales from the Tail —Get a Load of This (NSFW)

There’s a secret underground fetish of size that lives in the shadows of the gay kink world. We hide due to fear of judgement, rejection, and outright ridicule from people who would otherwise make us feel like outcasts and freaks. Quite honestly, we are…

February 26, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Average Penis Size By State (Length at Full Erection)

Let’s take a minute to talk about the penis. Here at Bespoke Surgical, we often talk about assholes, anal, and all things bottom (especially bottoming), but right now, we are going to focus on the other delightful part that’s just a few inches away. To us, there’s no such thing as a bad penis.

January 14, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tail — IFB (Internal Fistulotomy for Bottoms)

Every time I take a dick up my ass, I get this burning sensation. Small, big, wrist-thick—you fucking name it, it’s all irritating. I have done everything in an attempt to mitigate this sensation: constantly changing to different lubricants, trying different brands when using condoms, and also swapping out all of my toys to so-called “improved materials”.

January 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

PSA: Bleeding After Anal Sex Is Not Normal

There is nothing normal about bleeding with anal intercourse. While it may be common, it is not normal. Last night, I stopped by the podcast GayTalk 2.0 for my regular appearance, during which we spoke of last week’s double penetration blog post and the repercussions to boot.

December 18, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Bespoke Surgical: A Place for All Assholes

All day, I see assholes. I don’t discriminate — I treat all assholes, regardless of gender or sexuality. Luckily, the narrative of anal intercourse has become commonplace, thanks to coverage in the popular press these days, swaying way beyond just us homos.

December 12, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tail — Don’t Get Cocky with that Cock Ring

As I recounted my story with Dr. Goldstein, I couldn’t help but laugh at myself for getting *stuck* in a *tight* situation. However, what it leads to (and why it happened) is nothing to laugh at. Let’s start from the top.

December 12, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

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