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Click to read The Landscaping “Down There” Survey

The Landscaping “Down There” Survey

What does the modern American’s hair removal routine really look like and what’s the motivation behind it? Are we tidying the proverbial “hedges” for our romantic rendezvous, or is hair removal a matter of personal pride and comfort? And the burning question on everyone’s lips: what’s coming off and what’s staying on? These are pressing

November 15, 2023 by bespoke

Click to read Tales from the Tail: Get a Load of This (NSFW)

Tales from the Tail: Get a Load of This (NSFW)

There’s a secret underground fetish of size that lives in the shadows of the gay kink world. We hide due to fear of judgement, rejection, and outright ridicule from people who would otherwise make us feel like outcasts and freaks. Quite honestly, we are.

February 26, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail: (Internal Fistulotomy for Bottoms)

Tales from the Tail: (Internal Fistulotomy for Bottoms)

Every time I take a dick up my ass, I get this burning sensation. Small, big, wrist-thick, you fucking name it, it’s all irritating. I have done everything in an attempt to mitigate this sensation: constantly changing to different lubricants, trying different brands when using condoms, and also swapping out all of my toys to so-called “improved materials”.

January 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail: Don’t Get Cocky with that Cock Ring

Tales from the Tail: Don’t Get Cocky with that Cock Ring

As I recounted my story with Dr. Goldstein, I couldn’t help but laugh at myself for getting *stuck* in a *tight* situation. However, what it leads to (and why it happened) is nothing to laugh at. Let’s start from the top.

December 12, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Bespoke Surgical: A Place for All Assholes

Bespoke Surgical: A Place for All Assholes

All day, I see assholes. I don’t discriminate, I treat all assholes, regardless of gender or sexuality. Luckily, the narrative of anal intercourse has become commonplace, thanks to coverage in the popular press these days, swaying way beyond just us homos.

December 12, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The Experience of Coming Out for LGBTQ+ Individuals

The Experience of Coming Out for LGBTQ+ Individuals

National Coming Out Day is observed each year on October 11th as a way to celebrate individuals coming out as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or another identity (LGBTQ+). It began on October 11th, 1988, exactly a year after the 1987 March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights took place and half a million people held a demonstration in our nation’s capital.

October 11, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read HPV Vaccine Expanded to Include Ages 27-45

HPV Vaccine Expanded to Include Ages 27-45

Dude, my life sucked for a full year. It started after I was rimmed and from then on, I started developing some bumps on my asshole. The rimming felt fucking awesome, but when I found out the bumps were actually anal warts from the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV), my viewpoint quickly changed.

October 09, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read PSA: Say “No” to a Lateral Internal Sphincterotomy!

PSA: Say “No” to a Lateral Internal Sphincterotomy!

Over and over we write a tale of someone who is way too fucking tight. Too tight to even take a shit, let alone think about getting a dick up the ass. And the reason we started this blog was to educate each and everyone of you, some of whom do not have the appropriate resources or access to the specialized care we provide here at Bespoke Surgical.

October 02, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Tales from the Tail: STD Prevention in the Raw Era

Tales from the Tail: STD Prevention in the Raw Era

When someone asks me to sum up my year in one word it’s quite simple, fucked. Lots and lots of fucking. I go through phases, just like everyone else, and I am not proud to admit how many times I got treated this year for the myriad of sexually transmitted diseases.

June 13, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The Premiere of TailTalks Episode I

The Premiere of TailTalks Episode I

We are excited to announce the premiere of our new quarterly roundtable series, TailTalks. The idea has been over a year in the making and came about when Dr. Goldstein realized there was a lack of conversations focusing on LGBTQ+ issues that featured entrepreneurs, thought leaders, journalists, and members of the LGBTQ+ community not just from the medical world, but also from the worlds of art, fashion, entertainment, and sports.

May 24, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read How To Prevent Hemorrhoids?

How To Prevent Hemorrhoids?

First off, we all have hemorrhoids that is. Their mechanism and function is to cushion the anal region due to the increased pressures occurring with both defecation and anal play, all in the hopes of preventing injury.

May 08, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Get Sexcited: The Most Popular Sex Toys By State

Get Sexcited: The Most Popular Sex Toys By State

It’s safe to say that in recent years, sex toys have come out of the closet and into the mainstream. More people than ever are talking and writing about using sex toys in a sex-positive way, both alone and with a partner.

March 09, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Anal Sex Prep Practices: How Do Gay Men and Straight Women Compare?

Anal Sex Prep Practices: How Do Gay Men and Straight Women Compare?

Sex may be something that nearly everyone does, but the way each person prepares for it is not necessarily the same. When it comes to anal sex particularly, the type of preparation can be even more specific and can vary by the role of the person participating.

February 05, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein