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The Ultimate Guide to Rim Jobs

What Is a Rim Job? A rim job — also known as rimming or analingus — is the act of using one’s mouth and tongue to pleasure your partner’s anus. Rim jobs can involve licking, sucking and kissing, and any other oral-to-anal contact. Anal rimming can involve inserting the tongue into the anus, circling around

October 15, 2021 by bespoke

Survey: How Men and Women Feel About Their Genitalia

In recent years, the body confidence movement has found its stride across social media. Many young people are working to dismantle body ideals communicated by the media, and to instead find confidence from within. Here at Bespoke Surgical, we’ve seen firsthand just how much body image issues can impact a healthy sex life.

June 12, 2020 by bespoke

A Guide to Kegel Exercises for Men

Kegels are pelvic floor muscle exercises for men and women. The Pelvic floor muscles are like a hammock between the pubic bone and coccyx bone and form a bowl shape of muscles that control urination, defecation, internal organ support, core support, and help with sexual function.

May 27, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

How to Top Guide | 8 Tips to Be a Better Top

Bespoke Surgical has always been about the butt, but when it comes to anal sex, why should all the responsibility fall into the hands of the bottom? Tops should come to the bedroom with a full understanding of the ins and outs (pun intended) of the proper mechanics and the science behind bottoming.

April 06, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tail — The New Approach to Anal Bleaching

I was always self-conscious about my butt, being a bottom and all. Was it cute? Was it tight enough? Was it too tight? There are so many things for us bottoms to worry about. And then something else came up that made me worry: color. You hear more and more people talking about wanting a “nice, pink hole”, especially within the gay community. Great. Let me add that to my list: Is my hole pink enough?

April 01, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tale — Just In the Nick of Time

Have you ever tried to shave your own ass? And no, not just your butt cheeks. I mean all the way to your hole. No matter what angle or how you attempt to view it (I know I’m not the only one who squats over my iPhone 11 Pro), it’s so damn hard to shave it perfectly, let alone without some element of injury.

April 01, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

The Most Popular Sex Toys by State: The 2020 Update

The sex toy industry has taken off in recent years, thanks in part to the rapid growth of e-commerce platforms and changing social perception among users. In 2016, the sex toy industry was valued at $15 billion, and by 2019, it had increased to a whopping $26.5 billion. And from what we can tell, this is not expected to stop anytime soon.

March 23, 2020 by bespoke

The State of Oral Sex in America

Oral sex is just one way to give or receive pleasure, so why are there so many opinions, feelings, and stereotypes surrounding the topic? Because we’re human, of course. And humans and sex have a complex relationship, to say the least!

March 09, 2020 by bespoke

Best Gay Sex Positions Guide

The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering different positions not only heightens the experience, but also provides a deeper connection with your partner–both literally and figuratively. At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone.

January 13, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tail — SEX with CBD

Short and sweet. No, I’m not referring to my anal play, but rather my tale. I am 35 and have the most ridiculous irritable bowel disease (IBS). You can imagine being born a bottom and how this could impact my life negatively. I’ve tried everything.

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

PSA: Bottoming for a Small Dick

Seems like we have a small cock fetish at Bespoke Surgical. But I’d say it’s more like we’re obsessed with cock no matter what the size (and here you thought we only dealt with asses!). But both this week’s tale and last week’s tale are turning the attention to the “little guy”.

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Tales from the Tail — Is Monogamy During Post-Surgery Recovery Realistic?

Partners in crime. Or so they say… Here’s some background on me: I am 27, in a two year monogamous relationship, and have always been self-conscious of the aesthetics of my asshole. As a kid, I suffered from bouts of constipation, which subsequently lead to the formation of hemorrhoids and skin tags.

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

How Often Do Americans Masturbate?

According to Thomas Lacquer’s 2003 book, Solitary Sex: A Cultural History of Masturbation, masturbation as we know it was invented in 1713. By that, he meant that while masturbation may have always existed, it was only in the early 18th century that the phenomenon was named a new “disease,” creating a “nearly universal engine for generating guilt, shame, and anxiety.” 

November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

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