Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
How Often Should You Use an Enema?
Regardless of the subject, it never hurts to circle back to the basics periodically, and we’d like to revisit a topic we’ve touched on in other places at various points: enemas.
April 28, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
PSA: Bleeding After Anal Sex Is Not Normal
There is nothing normal about bleeding with anal intercourse. While it may be common, it is not normal. Last night, I stopped by the podcast GayTalk 2.0 for my regular appearance, during which we spoke of last week’s double penetration blog post and the repercussions to boot.
February 15, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
Average Penis Size By State (Length at Full Erection)
Let’s take a minute to talk about the penis. Here at Bespoke Surgical, we often talk about assholes, anal, and all things bottom (especially bottoming), but right now, we are going to focus on the other delightful part that’s just a few inches away. To us, there’s no such thing as a bad penis.
January 10, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
What to Do if You Have a Burst Hemorrhoid
A burst hemorrhoid is exactly what it sounds like. When you have a hemorrhoid that fills up with too much blood, it bursts. Before we dive deeper into burst hemorrhoids, let‘s do a quick refresher on hemorrhoids themselves. Hemorrhoids result from increased pressure in the veins of the anus, which causes them to bulge and
December 16, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
How to Tighten a Loose Anus & Gain Sphincter Strength
I spend a lot of time educating my clients on the right way to begin engaging as a bottom, but after years of anal play, something else many bottoms are concerned with is the possibility of loosening up their sphincters too much.
December 12, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
How to Bottom: 8 Steps For Being a Great Bottom Partner
The experts at Bespoke Surgical have compiled eight essential steps for being a good bottom partner. From diet to positioning to toys, we’ve covered it all to ensure you’re both prepared and able to have the best experience possible.
June 10, 2022 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Education
An Expert’s Guide to Anal Fingering
Anal fingering refers to the process of inserting a finger or multiple fingers into the anus, either by a partner or for self-pleasure. Anal fingering does not involve the whole hand, as that would be described as anal fisting. Fingering is generally a good starting point for those wanting to try out anal play but are not ready for full penetration with a penis or larger toy.
June 16, 2021 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Education
Anal Fisting for Beginners: A Fisting Guide
Anal fisting, not to be confused with vaginal fisting, is when one person inserts their entire hand into the anus of another. Though called “fisting,” the hand isn’t always positioned into a fist, although this can be achieved gradually. What’s commonly referred to as fisting can actually be an extension of the fingers into the anus up to or almost to the wrist. Think of the positioning as your four fingers leaning over to meet the pad of your thumb, creating a kind of cone shape or what most people call a “duck bill”.
April 19, 2021 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
General
New Year, New A**
Year in and year out, especially during the holiday season, I make an attempt to play Santa–listening to all my client’s naughty (and nice) bedroom wish lists. And just like Santa’s sled, our asses break down every now and again. But while Santa may cheer “Ho! Ho! Ho!”, Bespoke Surgical treats anal injuries (and whatever else may bring you into our office) with an open mind and without fear of judgment.
January 06, 2021 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Education
Does Anal Sex Cause Prostatitis?
Anal sex can cause prostatitis if not done properly. Anal sex is truly an art, with many intricacies that can complicate the act. The prostate gland is walnut-shaped and fills with fluid to help your sperm during ejaculation.
November 13, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
