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General
Survey: Are Chronically-Online Americans Having More or Less Sex?
We know, we know. Screen time gets blamed for everything. Burnout, bad sleep, digital dating disasters. But is it also to blame for a lackluster sex life? Or, could all those hours spent online actually be turning up the heat? To find out, we surveyed over 3,000 sexually active Americans, asking how many hours they
June 23, 2025 by bespoke
Uncategorized, Health
What LGBTQ+ Patients Reveal—and Hide—from Their Doctors
Navigating the healthcare system isn’t always straightforward, especially for LGBTQ+ individuals, who often face unique challenges and barriers. LGBTQ+ patients experience higher rates of discrimination in medical settings, and recent executive orders in 2025 threaten to restrict access to affirming care further, exacerbating these issues. To better understand LGBTQ+ patient experiences, we surveyed 1,500+ Americans,
June 10, 2025 by bespoke
Health
Anal Botox: A Comprehensive Guide
Anal Botox is an increasingly popular procedure used to relax the anal sphincter muscles for both medical and aesthetic reasons. While many associate Botox with smoothing wrinkles on the face or reducing excessive sweating, its ability to temporarily relax muscles also makes it a valuable tool for addressing conditions like anal fissures, spasms, and discomfort
February 27, 2025 by bespoke
Education
Understanding Anal Fissures: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment Options
What Is an Anal Fissure? An anal fissure is a small tear in the external skin of the lining of the anal canal. It usually manifests in the two weakest spots of anyone’s anus: posterior (to the back/tailbone) or anterior (towards the penis/testicular region). The tear exposes the underlying muscle, which, in turn, leads to
February 18, 2025 by bespoke
Health
Understanding Anal Skin Tags
What is an Anal Skin Tag? Skin tags are benign extra-folds of anal tissue. Anal skin tags can be caused by injuries near the anus, like hemorrhoids or fissures. They are also commonly referred to in the medical community as sentinel, rectal, and perianal skin tags. They may develop from the stretched overlying skin of
February 18, 2025 by bespoke
Uncategorized
Comprehensive Guide to Hemorrhoids Treatment
Hemorrhoids are an incredibly common yet often misunderstood condition that many people face at some point in their lives. Whether they’re caused by straining during bowel movements, prolonged sitting, improper lifting techniques while exercising, or anal intercourse, the discomfort and inconvenience they bring can significantly impact your day-to-day life. The good news? Most hemorrhoids can
January 06, 2025 by bespoke
General
How Many Dating App Matches Does It Take To Find A Hookup?
When it comes to finding a hookup on dating apps, it’s truly a numbers game. But what does the lead time between a match and a sexy rendezvous look like for dating app users and what percentage of Americans’ matches are converting into a hookup (i.e., any activity beyond kissing or making out)? We went
March 03, 2024 by bespoke
Aesthetics, General
The Landscaping “Down There” Survey
What does the modern American’s hair removal routine really look like and what’s the motivation behind it? Are we tidying the proverbial “hedges” for our romantic rendezvous, or is hair removal a matter of personal pride and comfort? And the burning question on everyone’s lips: what’s coming off and what’s staying on? These are pressing
January 02, 2024 by bespoke
Health, General
The Nudity Confidence Survey
The recent Vanderpump Rules drama has captivated audiences in the reality TV universe and shined a spotlight on a topic that resonates deeply in today’s pop culture: body confidence. Amidst a widely-publicized cheating scandal (coined #Scandoval), the fallout revealed a surprising revelation—an alleged lack of intimacy traced back to a struggle with body confidence. Drama
July 30, 2023 by bespoke
Health, General, Travel
The Best U.S. Cities to Get Lucky
Which cities have the sauciest hookup scene or the most opportunities to score? We’ve scoured locations across the country to find which ones have the most singles, minimal sexual frustration, the highest number of bars, adult entertainment clubs, and other indicators of a thriving hookup culture, all to help you find the perfect place to
May 31, 2023 by bespoke
