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Quizzing Americans on LGBTQ Terms

Millions of Americans identify as LGBTQ+. As the understanding of human sexuality and gender identity grows, knowledge can bring us together and foster deeper empathy. Language exists to clarify, but how familiar is the average American with LGBTQ+ terminology? Like any group, the LGBTQ+ community has its own language to express who they are and

January 20, 2022 by bespoke

Education

Glossary of LGBTQ+ Terms

How we communicate matters. The first step to creating more inclusive spaces is using language that makes all parties involved feel comfortable and supported. In the spirit of validating others by using inclusive and identity-affirming language, we produced a glossary of LGBTQ+ terms. Disclaimer: By no means is this meant to be a comprehensive list.

January 20, 2022 by bespoke

Health

What Is Rectal Prolapse? Discover Symptoms, Causes & Surgery

What is Rectal Prolapse? Rectal prolapse is when your rectum — the last section of your large intestine — drops and pushes through your anus. In the anal sex community, especially those who identify as gay, this is commonly referred to as a “rosebud,” and the act of pushing it out is known as “blooming.”

January 19, 2022 by bespoke

Education

Why You Want To Try A Sex Pillow – And How To Use It

Whether you’re looking for a bit more comfort in your usual routine or hoping to spice it up with something new, sex pillows might just be the solution to test out. What Is a Sex Pillow? Sex pillows are firm cushions designed to support your body during intimacy. Coming in a variety of shapes and

October 28, 2021 by bespoke

Education

The Ultimate Guide to Rim Jobs

What Is a Rim Job? A rim job — also known as rimming or analingus — is the act of using one’s mouth and tongue to pleasure your partner’s anus. Rim jobs can involve licking, sucking and kissing, and any other oral-to-anal contact. Anal rimming can involve inserting the tongue into the anus, circling around

October 15, 2021 by bespoke

General, Education, Health

Porn Usage in America & Changing Attitudes Toward Porn

The ongoing taboo associated with watching porn has lifted in recent years, as Americans continue to be more sexually adventurous. Gone are the days of hushed tones and shameful confessions that have (historically) been synonymous with porn viewership. People––across genders, generations, and sexual orientations––are more open and honest about their porn-viewing habits than ever before.

October 13, 2021 by bespoke

General, Education, Health

The Average Number of Sexual Partners Across America

We’ve all gotten the question. You know, the one that makes you panic, squirm, and run quick mental calculations, hoping your answer is acceptable. What’s your number? And, no, we don’t mean your credit score. We’re talking about your number of sexual partners.

June 24, 2021 by bespoke

General, Education, Health

America’s Favorite Sex Positions

As humans, we’re creatures of habit. Once we find a few go-to sex positions that tickle our fancy, we soon find ourselves cycling through the same ones over and over. For many, a healthy rotation of tried-and-true sex positions is preferred because these are the positions that we genuinely enjoy most with our partners or where climaxing is guaranteed.

March 23, 2021 by bespoke

General, Education, Health

Why Americans Don’t Use Bidets (And Why We Should)

If you’ve ever taken a trip overseas, you know that culture shock can be very real. Different etiquette around tipping and different local cuisines are waiting to surprise Americans wherever they go. One less-talked-about culture shock faced by many Americans is their discovery of a bidet in their hotel bathroom overseas.

January 08, 2021 by bespoke

General, Education, Health

Sex Product Spending Across The U.S.

Advertisers will tell you that “sex sells” just about any product on the market, but when it comes to the sex product industry, what’s really making a splash in our shifting culture around sex. In recent years, mainstream pop culture has started to move toward a more “sex-positive” outlook, bringing various issues out of the shadows and getting people talking about what they really need in the bedroom. 

October 27, 2020 by bespoke

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