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An Expert’s Guide to Anal Fingering
Anal fingering refers to the process of inserting a finger or multiple fingers into the anus, either by a partner or for self-pleasure. Anal fingering does not involve the whole hand, as that would be described as anal fisting. Fingering is generally a good starting point for those wanting to try out anal play but are not ready for full penetration with a penis or larger toy.
January 19, 2026 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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An Expert’s Guide to Anal Fingering
Anal fingering refers to the process of inserting a finger or multiple fingers into the anus, either by a partner or for self-pleasure. Anal fingering does not involve the whole hand, as that would be described as anal fisting. Fingering is generally a good starting point for those wanting to try out anal play but are not ready for full penetration with a penis or larger toy.
January 19, 2026 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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A Guide to Kegel Exercises for Men
Kegels are pelvic floor muscle exercises for men and women. The Pelvic floor muscles are like a hammock between the pubic bone and coccyx bone and form a bowl shape of muscles that control urination, defecation, internal organ support, core support, and help with sexual function.
January 19, 2026 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Swollen Anus: Symptoms, Causes, and Treatment
The anus is not only our most valuable asset, but it ‘ s also one of our most delicate. It ‘ s quite a vulnerable part of the body with very tender, thin skin. When it ‘ s even the slightest bit irritated or inflammation is present, you‘re bound to notice. You may be wondering
January 14, 2026 by bespoke
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Can Anal Sex Cause Prostatitis?
Anal sex can cause prostatitis if not done properly. Anal sex is truly an art, with many intricacies that can complicate the act. The prostate gland is walnut-shaped and fills with fluid to help your sperm during ejaculation.
January 11, 2026 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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How To Be A Good Top | 8 Tips For Being On Top
Bespoke Surgical has always been about the butt, but when it comes to anal sex, why should all the responsibility fall into the hands of the bottom? Tops should come to the bedroom with a full understanding of the ins and outs (pun intended) of the proper mechanics and the science behind bottoming.
January 11, 2026 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Do You Need An Anal Pap Smear?
Believe it or not, anal pap smears are not as common as they should be. At Bespoke Surgical, Dr. Goldstein has been at the forefront of educating people about what they are, who should get them, why you should get them, and how often you should get them. Everyone, especially those who engage in anal
January 11, 2026 by bespoke
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The Science of Anal Sex
Get to Know Your Inner A**hole For many, sharing sexual pleasure may be a form of art, but there‘s also plenty of science behind it, particularly when it involves, well, the behind. Yes, we‘re talking about anal sex and by the way, these days, anal sex is not primarily the territory of gay men. Recent
December 07, 2025 by bespoke
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The Ultimate Guide to Anal Hygiene
So let me paint a morning, any morning, where you’re rushing out to work or the gym and you feel the urge to poop. You proceed to sit down, phone in hand on Instagram or TikTok, and it’s just not coming. Or more so, it’s not progressing the way you would have hoped. Time is
June 24, 2025 by bespoke
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Understanding Anal Fissures: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment Options
What Is an Anal Fissure? An anal fissure is a small tear in the external skin of the lining of the anal canal. It usually manifests in the two weakest spots of anyone’s anus: posterior (to the back/tailbone) or anterior (towards the penis/testicular region). The tear exposes the underlying muscle, which, in turn, leads to
February 18, 2025 by bespoke
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Anal Fisting for Beginners: A Fisting Guide
Anal fisting, not to be confused with vaginal fisting, is when one person inserts their entire hand into the anus of another. Though called “fisting,” the hand isn’t always positioned into a fist, although this can be achieved gradually. What’s commonly referred to as fisting can actually be an extension of the fingers into the anus up to or almost to the wrist. Think of the positioning as your four fingers leaning over to meet the pad of your thumb, creating a kind of cone shape or what most people call a “duck bill”.
November 14, 2024 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
