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The Ultimate Guide to Anal Hygiene
So let me paint a morning, any morning, where you’re rushing out to work or the gym and you feel the urge to poop. You proceed to sit down, phone in hand on Instagram or TikTok, and it’s just not coming. Or more so, it’s not progressing the way you would have hoped. Time is
June 24, 2025 by bespoke
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Porn Usage in America & Changing Attitudes Toward Porn
The ongoing taboo associated with watching porn has lifted in recent years, as Americans continue to be more sexually adventurous. Gone are the days of hushed tones and shameful confessions that have (historically) been synonymous with porn viewership. People across genders, generations, and sexual orientations are more open and honest about their porn-viewing habits than ever before.
October 13, 2021 by bespoke
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The Average Number of Sexual Partners Across America
We’ve all gotten the question. You know, the one that makes you panic, squirm, and run quick mental calculations, hoping your answer is acceptable. What’s your number? And, no, we don’t mean your credit score. We’re talking about your number of sexual partners.
June 24, 2021 by bespoke
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An Expert’s Guide to Anal Fingering
Anal fingering refers to the process of inserting a finger or multiple fingers into the anus, either by a partner or for self-pleasure. Anal fingering does not involve the whole hand, as that would be described as anal fisting. Fingering is generally a good starting point for those wanting to try out anal play but are not ready for full penetration with a penis or larger toy.
June 16, 2021 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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America’s Favorite Sex Positions
As humans, we’re creatures of habit. Once we find a few go-to sex positions that tickle our fancy, we soon find ourselves cycling through a few common sex positions over and over. For many, a healthy rotation of tried-and-true sex positions is preferred because these are the positions that we genuinely enjoy most with our partners or where climaxing is guaranteed.
March 23, 2021 by bespoke
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Why Americans Don’t Use Bidets (And Why We Should)
If you’ve ever taken a trip overseas, you know that culture shock can be very real. Different etiquette around tipping and different local cuisines are waiting to surprise Americans wherever they go. One less-talked-about culture shock faced by many Americans is their discovery of a bidet in their hotel bathroom overseas.
January 08, 2021 by bespoke
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Does Anal Sex Cause Prostatitis?
Anal sex can cause prostatitis if not done properly. Anal sex is truly an art, with many intricacies that can complicate the act. The prostate gland is walnut-shaped and fills with fluid to help your sperm during ejaculation.
November 13, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Sex Product Spending Across The U.S.
Advertisers will tell you that “sex sells” just about any product on the market, but when it comes to the sex product industry, what’s really making a splash in our shifting culture around sex. In recent years, mainstream pop culture has started to move toward a more “sex-positive” outlook, bringing various issues out of the shadows and getting people talking about what they really need in the bedroom.
October 27, 2020 by bespoke
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STD Rates, Awareness, & Education in Each State
At Bespoke Surgical, we are committed to educating our patients and community about the healthiest sexual practices for themselves and for their partners, whether that be through providing proper education around anal play in our Tales from the Tail series, Dr. Evan Goldstein’s advocacy work, or any other initiative we take on.
July 29, 2020 by bespoke
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Survey: How Men and Women Feel About Their Genitalia
In recent years, the body confidence movement has found its stride across social media. Many young people are working to dismantle body ideals communicated by the media, and to instead find confidence from within. Here at Bespoke Surgical, we’ve seen firsthand just how much body image issues can impact a healthy sex life.
June 12, 2020 by bespoke
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A Guide to Kegel Exercises for Men
Kegels are pelvic floor muscle exercises for men and women. The Pelvic floor muscles are like a hammock between the pubic bone and coccyx bone and form a bowl shape of muscles that control urination, defecation, internal organ support, core support, and help with sexual function.
May 27, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
