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The Average Penis Size in Every State
Penis size is one of those topics that manages to be everywhere and nowhere at once: joked about constantly, discussed quietly, and treated like a high-stakes scoreboard even though bodies don’t come with a single “right” measurement. It’s also a surprisingly durable source of anxiety and cultural noise — the kind that can shape self-image,
February 22, 2026 by Bespoke Surgical
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Why Americans Don’t Use Bidets (And Why We Should)
If you’ve ever taken a trip overseas, you know that culture shock can be very real. Different etiquette around tipping and different local cuisines are waiting to surprise Americans wherever they go. One less-talked-about culture shock faced by many Americans is their discovery of a bidet in their hotel bathroom overseas.
January 08, 2021 by Bespoke Surgical
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New Year, New A**
Year in and year out, especially during the holiday season, I make an attempt to play Santa–listening to all my client’s naughty (and nice) bedroom wish lists. And just like Santa’s sled, our asses break down every now and again. But while Santa may cheer “Ho! Ho! Ho!”, Bespoke Surgical treats anal injuries (and whatever else may bring you into our office) with an open mind and without fear of judgment.
January 06, 2021 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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Sex Product Spending Across The U.S.
Advertisers will tell you that “sex sells” just about any product on the market, but when it comes to the sex product industry, what’s really making a splash in our shifting culture around sex. In recent years, mainstream pop culture has started to move toward a more “sex-positive” outlook, bringing various issues out of the shadows and getting people talking about what they really need in the bedroom.
October 27, 2020 by Bespoke Surgical
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The State of Oral Sex in America
Oral sex is just one way to give or receive pleasure, so why are there so many opinions, feelings, and stereotypes surrounding the topic? Because we’re human, of course. And humans and sex have a complex relationship, to say the least!
March 09, 2020 by Bespoke Surgical
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The 10 Best Gay Sex Positions: A Guide
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering different positions not only heightens the experience, but also provides a deeper connection with your partner–both literally and figuratively. At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone.
January 13, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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How Often Do Americans Masturbate?
According to Thomas Lacquer’s 2003 book, Solitary Sex: A Cultural History of Masturbation, masturbation as we know it was invented in 1713. By that, he meant that while masturbation may have always existed, it was only in the early 18th century that the phenomenon was named a new disease, creating a “nearly universal engine for generating guilt, shame, and anxiety.”
November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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The Best Cities for Gay Dating
Living in a place with a vibrant dating scene is important for most single individuals, young and old. With such an environment, it can be easier to find a potential significant other, or simply explore the area with someone who doesn’t fall in the “friend” category. Romantic relationships aren’t everything — but they’re certainly an important part of life.
June 14, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
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The Most Popular Queer Eye Member In Every State
Queer Eye Season 3 is set to hit Netflix on March 15 and the announcement has fans of the Emmy-winning show excited about catching up on all the heartwarming stories and life-changing makeover goodness with the Fab Five. After all, who doesn’t enjoy a good binge-watching session? The show has propelled the members of the Fab Five to superstardom, making them icons in the industry.
March 03, 2019 by Bespoke Surgical
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The Experience of Coming Out for LGBTQ+ Individuals
National Coming Out Day is observed each year on October 11th as a way to celebrate individuals coming out as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or another identity (LGBTQ+). It began on October 11th, 1988, exactly a year after the 1987 March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights took place and half a million people held a demonstration in our nation’s capital.
October 11, 2018 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
