Dr. Evan Goldstein
Education
A Guide to Kegel Exercises for Men
Kegels are pelvic floor muscle exercises for men and women. The Pelvic floor muscles are like a hammock between the pubic bone and coccyx bone and form a bowl shape of muscles that control urination, defecation, internal organ support, core support, and help with sexual function.
May 27, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Education
How To Be A Good Top | 8 Tips For Being On Top
Bespoke Surgical has always been about the butt, but when it comes to anal sex, why should all the responsibility fall into the hands of the bottom? Tops should come to the bedroom with a full understanding of the ins and outs (pun intended) of the proper mechanics and the science behind bottoming.
April 06, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Aesthetics
Tales from the Tail: The New Approach to Anal Bleaching
I was always self-conscious about my butt, being a bottom and all. Was it cute? Was it tight enough? Was it too tight? There are so many things for us bottoms to worry about. And then something else came up that made me worry: color. You hear more and more people talking about wanting a nice, pink hole, especially within the gay community. Great. Let me add that to my list: Is my hole pink enough?
April 01, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Aesthetics
Tales from the Tale: Just In the Nick of Time
Have you ever tried to shave your own ass? And no, not just your butt cheeks. I mean all the way to your hole. No matter what angle or how you attempt to view it (I know I’m not the only one who squats over my iPhone 11 Pro), it’s so damn hard to shave it perfectly, let alone without some element of injury.
April 01, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
General
The 10 Best Gay Sex Positions: A Guide
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any relationship. Mastering different positions not only heightens the experience, but also provides a deeper connection with your partner–both literally and figuratively. At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone.
January 13, 2020 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
Tales from the Tail: Is Monogamy During Post-Surgery Recovery Realistic?
Partners in crime. Or so they say, here’s some background on me: I am 27, in a two year monogamous relationship, and have always been self-conscious of the aesthetics of my asshole. As a kid, I suffered from bouts of constipation, which subsequently lead to the formation of hemorrhoids and skin tags.
November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
PSA: Bottoming for a Small Dick
Seems like we have a small cock fetish at Bespoke Surgical. But I’d say it’s more like we’re obsessed with cock no matter what the size (and here you thought we only dealt with asses!). But both this week’s tale and last week’s tale are turning the attention to the “little guy”.
November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
General
How Often Do Americans Masturbate?
According to Thomas Lacquer’s 2003 book, Solitary Sex: A Cultural History of Masturbation, masturbation as we know it was invented in 1713. By that, he meant that while masturbation may have always existed, it was only in the early 18th century that the phenomenon was named a new disease, creating a “nearly universal engine for generating guilt, shame, and anxiety.”
November 08, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
General
The Best Cities for Gay Dating
Living in a place with a vibrant dating scene is important for most single individuals, young and old. With such an environment, it can be easier to find a potential significant other, or simply explore the area with someone who doesn’t fall in the “friend” category. Romantic relationships aren’t everything — but they’re certainly an important part of life.
June 14, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
Health
Tales from the Tail: Who Doesn’t Love to Get Their Ass Eaten?
Who doesn’t love to get their ass eaten? I can surely say I do. I mean, I really do. It’s like a total fucking must for me. If you want to even think about sticking whatever dick into me, first things first.
May 07, 2019 by Dr. Evan Goldstein
