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Click to read The Average Penis Size in Every State

The Average Penis Size in Every State

Penis size is one of those topics that manages to be everywhere and nowhere at once: joked about constantly, discussed quietly, and treated like a high-stakes scoreboard even though bodies don’t come with a single “right” measurement. It’s also a surprisingly durable source of anxiety and cultural noise — the kind that can shape self-image,

February 22, 2026 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read Proctologist vs Gastroenterologist: What’s the Difference?

Proctologist vs Gastroenterologist: What’s the Difference?

Unless you work in medicine, you may be thinking to yourself: what’s the difference between a proctologist and a gastroenterologist? While they are related, they each focus on different parts of the body, and thus different pathologies and issues. This guide will help you determine if you should see us here at Bespoke Surgical, or

April 20, 2023 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read PSA: Bleeding After Anal Sex Is Not Normal

PSA: Bleeding After Anal Sex Is Not Normal

There is nothing normal about bleeding with anal intercourse. While it may be common, it is not normal. Last night, I stopped by the podcast GayTalk 2.0 for my regular appearance, during which we spoke of last week’s double penetration blog post and the repercussions to boot.

February 15, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read Average Penis Size By State (Length at Full Erection)

Average Penis Size By State (Length at Full Erection)

Let’s take a minute to talk about the penis. Here at Bespoke Surgical, we often talk about assholes, anal, and all things bottom (especially bottoming), but right now, we are going to focus on the other delightful part that’s just a few inches away. To us, there’s no such thing as a bad penis.

January 10, 2023 by Dr. Evan Goldstein

Click to read The U.S. Sex Toy Map & Other Sex Toy Statistics

The U.S. Sex Toy Map & Other Sex Toy Statistics

Gone are the days of hushed tones and awkward confessions when it comes to talking about our sex toy usage. At Bespoke, sex toys are synonymous with self-care, which goes further than a good face mask and a meditation session. Sex toys can be a valuable part of a person’s self-love journey or a couple’s

August 29, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read What’s Turning Americans On in 2022?

What’s Turning Americans On in 2022?

What’s getting people in the mood in 2022? Maybe it’s a nibble of the lower lip. Perhaps it’s a level of confidence that’s indisputably sexy. Hell, maybe it’s a nude photo. We’re honestly not sure, but we felt a pressing need to find out. We asked a diverse set of Americans about which gestures, personality

March 24, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read Bring Home the Benefits of Data-Driven Care

Bring Home the Benefits of Data-Driven Care

mCompass Enables Anorectal Manometry Testing in Any Care Setting For an experienced clinician, fingertips can speak volumes during a rectal exam. But for the highest quality-of-care, data, along with digits is crucial. After all, physicians are scientists and know that hard data is invaluable, leading to the better practice of medicine and better treatment results.

March 10, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read Quizzing Americans on LGBTQ Terms

Quizzing Americans on LGBTQ Terms

Millions of Americans identify as LGBTQ+. As the understanding of human sexuality and gender identity grows, knowledge can bring us together and foster deeper empathy. Language exists to clarify, but how familiar is the average American with LGBTQ+ terminology? Like any group, the LGBTQ+ community has its own language to express who they are and

January 20, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read Glossary of LGBTQ+ Terms

Glossary of LGBTQ+ Terms

How we communicate matters. The first step to creating more inclusive spaces is using language that makes all parties involved feel comfortable and supported. In the spirit of validating others by using inclusive and identity-affirming language, we produced a glossary of LGBTQ+ terms. Disclaimer: By no means is this meant to be a comprehensive list.

January 20, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read The United States of Sexual Frustration

The United States of Sexual Frustration

We’ve all been there, you hit up an old fling to end a dry spell the length of eternity. You can’t remember the last time you had an orgasm, or you and your partner’s sex life is starting to feel more stale than steamy. Sexual frustration is tough, full stop. It can occur with people

January 02, 2022 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read Why You Want To Try A Sex Pillow – And How To Use It

Why You Want To Try A Sex Pillow – And How To Use It

Whether you‘re looking for a bit more comfort in your usual routine or hoping to spice it up with something new, sex pillows might just be the solution to test out. What Is a Sex Pillow? Sex pillows are firm cushions designed to support your body during intimacy. Coming in a variety of shapes and

October 28, 2021 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read The Ultimate Guide to Rim Jobs

The Ultimate Guide to Rim Jobs

What Is a Rim Job? A rim job, also known as rimming or analingus, is the act of using one‘s mouth and tongue to pleasure your partner’s anus. Rim jobs can involve licking, sucking and kissing, and any other oral-to-anal contact. Anal rimming can involve inserting the tongue into the anus, circling around it, hence

October 15, 2021 by Bespoke Surgical

Click to read Porn Usage in America & Changing Attitudes Toward Porn

Porn Usage in America & Changing Attitudes Toward Porn

The ongoing taboo associated with watching porn has lifted in recent years, as Americans continue to be more sexually adventurous. Gone are the days of hushed tones and shameful confessions that have (historically) been synonymous with porn viewership. People across genders, generations, and sexual orientations are more open and honest about their porn-viewing habits than ever before.

October 13, 2021 by Bespoke Surgical